Wednesday, June 28, 2023

Bruxism and Jaw Misalignment: Managing Stress and Improving Mental Well-being

During my recent dental appointment for scaling, an interesting revelation came to light. The dentist detected bruxism, a condition characterized by the grinding or clenching of teeth, which is often associated with high levels of stress. This caught me off guard, as no previous dentist had mentioned bruxism before. However, as I reflected on my experiences, I recalled instances of jaw misalignment in 2021 and 2022, which may have been a result of bruxism. It made me realize the significant impact that stress can have on both my physical and mental well-being.

The years 2021 and 2022 presented me with numerous challenges that tested my resilience. Although I believed I was handling the stress well, my bruxism served as a visible reminder of its effects on my health, particularly my mental and emotional well-being. It was a wake-up call to prioritize self-care and find healthier ways to manage stress.

As I enter 2023, the challenges persist, and the road ahead appears even more demanding. However, I am determined to face them head-on and live life on my own terms. Through self-reflection and personal growth, I have learned to adjust and cope better with the adversities that come my way. I am confident that I can overcome the obstacles and emerge stronger, both mentally and physically.

Bruxism, discovered during a routine dental appointment, shed light on the impact of stress on my overall health. The jaw misalignment I experienced served as a stark reminder of the toll that challenging years can take. Nevertheless, I remain optimistic and committed to improving my well-being. By embracing self-care practices and adopting a positive mindset, I am confident that I will navigate the future with resilience and live a healthier, more fulfilling life.

Sunday, May 07, 2023

Start Living Life On Your Own Terms

Living is beautiful. Life is a gift, embrace it and enjoy the experiences.
This is what I shared with friends and especially the younger generation.

The world is getting better, with more populations being highly educated.
The environment will also get better, with the renewable and sustainable green technologies.

(Beautiful KLCC view)
By James Kerwin from Tbilisi - The Twins | SE Asia 2019, CC BY 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=84723947

However, while I review my life, I am puzzling that if  I am living the life I aspired?
I do not have the exact answer.
I changed over time, or shall I say I progress over time?

As a middle age man, the purpose of my life is not the same as the younger me.
I would like to live to make the world a better place for living, human, animals & plants.
Not merely serving the greedy corporates, and sadly to say, most of the corporates are managed by bureaucrats. I am at my last few years before hitting golden age, I find I am wasting my precious time on bureaucracy and office politics.

I would like to start living life on my terms.
Not possible now, as I am yet to reach financial freedom.
I give myself 3 years time frame, if I can achieve financial freedom before 3 years period, that will be great. If I can't, upon 3 years time period is due, I shall proceed to take the first step on the journey to live on my terms.



Tuesday, November 20, 2018

Kuwait International Airport International Hall & Boarding Gate Entry Inspection

Kuwait, one of the GULF countries in Middle East Region, and is also one of the fastest growing economy entity in Middle East at this moment.

I learnt new experience on the Kuwait International security inspection, which are inspection prior to entrance to International Departure Hall and inspection to boarding Hall.

If you are bringing your notebook PC or laptop, please have it fully charged or have the power adapter with your hand carry luggage.

This is because you will be asked to turn ON your notebook PC and laptop during both of the above mentioned inspections.

To travel light, I usually have the laptop's power adapter checked in with my luggage. Just imagine, if my laptop battery is flat and I have no adapter with me, what kind of mess and unwanted situation will happen to me? 

If you are a business traveler, and you are traveling in tight schedule, this will mess up your journey.

Feel free to share this post and comment if any.

Wednesday, July 11, 2018

Live Present, Live Now, Live Well

About the same date in 20 years ago, after my polytechnic diploma final exam, I took a bus with a luggage bag traveling to Kuala Lumpur to look for a job and continue my degree study in UTM, Technology University of Malaysia.

I was very excited, partly was because another new chapter of my life has begun. However the main reason is my girlfriend was studying in KL as well.

I shared a room with another 3 friends in one of the apartment in Cheras for the first 2 months.

I moved out and occupied a room in a double storey linked house.

The quality of life had downgraded so much after I moved out from my home town. The tap water is yellowish, the toilet was always dirty and the toilet drain is always clogged. Worse off is at that time, water supply crisis was haunting the KL residents.

After a few months, I moved to another house with some new friends. I painted my room before I move in. Things got better because we invested a unit of water purifier. No more clogged toilet drain however cleanliness was still far behind what I enjoyed back home.

The stayed in the third  house for 5 years until I got married, and my wife and me moved to a rented house.

The privacy that we enjoyed and customization of stuffs to our liking was the experience we never had when we both stayed at respective bachelor house.

The joy of having a home even though it was built on a rented house is worthy and necessary.

I regretted that for the past 5-6 years, I did not rent a house to build a comfortable home. 

Living life does not means we need to compromise the quality of life in present for future. 

Live now, live present, build a comfortable place called home.

Friday, May 04, 2018

给爸爸的信

爸爸,不知不觉,您已离开了我们两年多了。您好吗?在这段时间里,我在梦里见到您,您老人家正在干活,忙着呢,但您不忘叫我放心。

我们一家过得很好,妈妈,姐姐和媳妇都健康安好,您的三个孙子也都活泼的成长中,由其是小孙儿,调皮可爱得很。

现在我也己年过四十了。一年前离开了工作十年的工司,在两个月前又换了一家工司。在事业上可算是步步高升,更上一层楼吧。

在您在世的最后一年,是我倍您最少的一年。小孙儿早产加上工作忙碌,我早出晚归,虽然是同住,但一天却没有两三句话。当您吐最后一口气的时候,我正在搭着泰国回马的飞机。回到家里,只能摸着您冷冷的身体。

过去一年,新工作因为要时常出差,因此也让我有了一个人独处的时间。我思考了很多关于我的人生的事情,大部分都与家人有关连的。

我发觉我一向来的人生目标都是要让您为我的成就而感到骄傲。也可能是这样,在过去的一年,我总是觉得好象缺少了什么人生目标似的。

我什么都有了,但我沒有了一个我很尊敬的父亲。

在未来的曰子,我会以您为榜样,做个好父亲,好丈夫和孝顺的儿子。

但愿下一世,我有机会再做您的儿子。

Friday, December 08, 2017

Miascor Lounge at Terminal 1, Ninoy Aquino International Airport

The traffic condition in Manila city is consider very congested. A 5 to 6km distance may take you about 2 hours if you travel by car.

I also heard that travelling from Makati city to the Ninoy Aquino International Airport can take as long as 4 hours, and it is common. Having said that I have never encounter such horrible situation, maybe because I will request to use Skyway instead of let the driver decide which route to go.

Because of the unpredictable traffic situation, my Philippines friends always advise me to depart to airport 4 hours before my flight departure time. I think this is a logical advise, however if the flight schedule is delayed, which is very common in Manila, I will end up having to wait for 3-5 hours before taking a 4 hours journey flight in the plane.

The airport is descent, however with very limited choice of F&B, and the "turtle" speed broadband from Globe or Smart, the waiting time of 3-5 hours are kind of challenging.

The only way out is to find a descent place to chill, work or perhaps a "me time".



The only bet will be the airport lounge.  As Enrich member, I will be able to entity the lounge once I qualify for Gold member. I am 9000 Enrich miles away from getting there, hope by January 2018, when I visit Manila again, this Miascor lounge will be a nice place for me to spend my 3-5 hours time in the airport.

Saturday, September 16, 2017

Fake Egg vs Real Egg

Egg is the most complete source of protein.
As usual, we will prepare half boiled eggs for my family during weekend.

The Village Eggs that bought from wet market

However, when I clean the eggs shell before I put them into the stainless steel mug for soft boiling, I found the eggs look too perfect to be real. It triggers more suspiscous when my wife told me there is some plastic smell released when she opened the cover of stainless steel mug. The eggs were tasteless as well.

The above signs summoned an experiment to clear my doubt.

To test is to compare the suspicous village egg with another farm egg.
The white color egg is village egg, and the brown color egg is farm egg.
Hard boiled both of the eggs.

Village egg and farm egg for comparison

Remove the round (bottom) of the egg shell. Natural egg shal have some air space between the shell and the egg white at the bottom.

Can you see if there is any air space in between the shell and egg white?

What about this one? Is there any air space between the shell and egg white?

The egg shell and the egg white of the village egg leave no air space.
On the other hand, the air space between the egg shell and egg white of the farm egg is clearly visible.

Let's peel off the eggs completely and compare the shape of the eggs.

Village egg has Perfect shape


Farm egg has flat bottom, which leave air space betwen the egg white and the egg shell

The village egg has perfect shape, both top and bottm of the egg has round surface. However for the farm egg, the bottom looks flat where this gives air space between egg white and the egg shell.

I am not sure whether my test result can be conclusive to say that the said village egg is fake. However it is safe to choose for alternative source that I can be assured that the eggs that my family consume is genuine.

If you have more information, please feel free to share your comment.

Tuesday, July 18, 2017

JPJ Petaling Jaya

JPJ, also known as Jabatan Pengangkutan Jalan is a department that deal with driving license, road tax, change of car ownership, compounds, etc.

As usual, I have started to use online application like MYEG for anything to deal with JPJ or government agencies. It is because of issues like:

1. Severe insufficient car parking space
2. Extremely crowded. 

Basically doing one single transaction with JPJ will cost you almost one productive day. 

My question now is why these peoples willingly to burn their productive hours by physically visit to JPJ for transactions? Can't they do it online?

The government is also not learning. The new government offices like those in Putrajaya are also designed with limited car park spaces. It is really counter productive as the visitors need to spend almost 60 minutes to get their car parked before they can proceed to queue for a number. After getting a number they need to queue for 60-360 minutes for their turn depending on luck. The actual transaction takes you less than 5 minutes.

If you really need to visit to JPJ, my advise is you shall take Uber or Grab. At least you save the hassle of looking out for car park.

For any transactions that you can do online, try it and I bet you will love it. So convenient and very productive. It cost you a couple of Ringgit to save you hours, gasoline and tolls.

Saturday, June 03, 2017

A Malaysia political view that resonate with my feeling

Malaysia is still a developing country despite we were once on par with Singapore and having higher GDP than South Korea.

Malaysia is a country that is so rich with natural resources including oil & gas, strategically located in the centre of ASEAN, however until today, we are still categorized as emerging market, a.k.a. third world country.

Below is the article that I received from a chat group which echo my view. Please read on.

*C H I N A*
I lived in Beijing from 1979 to 1981 as a diplomat & was back in China again earlier this month to attend a meeting
The pace of change in China is simply staggering
When I first arrived in the country, China had no middle class
According to some economists, it's wages were just above that of sub-Saharan Africa
Most people lived in mud brick shacks and there were as many bicycles as there were people
Vegetables like cabbage were brought from the communes when available and dumped by the truckloads on the roadside; the smell of rotting cabbage was everywhere
DENG XIAOPING , the paramount leader of China from 1978 till his retirement in 1989, was one of the most remarkable leaders I have ever had the privilege of meeting
He saw what many of his more ideologically inclined colleagues were too blind to see - that if a way could be found to release the industriousness, creativity and ingenuity of the Chinese people, there would be no stopping China’s rise to greatness
In my view, that was his greatest contribution to China
And he set about changing China through the Four Modernisations policy
It was a big deal then, much the same way as One Belt One Road (OBOR) project is today
Less than four decades after I first arrived in Beijing, the city is not just a world-class capital city, it is the capital of the world
The millions of bicycles that once filled the streets of Beijing are gone, replaced by millions of cars both foreign and locally-made
In the week that I was there for my recent meeting, China’s first locally-built aircraft carrier began sea trials while its first locally-built passenger plane took its maiden voyage
Almost everything - airports, roads, mass transit systems, telecommunications - is new and more advanced than anything anywhere else
The old ‘hutongs’ (alleys) are all but gone, replaced by dazzling high-rise condos, shopping malls, stadiums, coffee bars and fabulously expensive restaurants filled not by expatriates but by locals
Except for the famous historical landmarks, very little remains of the Beijing I first encountered in 1979
The people I talked to were confident about their future and proud of what had been accomplished
They were anxious to get the best education, learn new experiences,discover new business opportunities, seek ways to exploit new technologies, and were ready to move to the other side of the world if necessary in pursuit of their aspirations.
As a nation, there is an eagerness to be the best and the greatest, to climb the highest, go the furthest, to build the biggest, fastest and most advanced
It doesn’t take long for visitors to sense that this is a nation on the move, impatient to fulfil its manifest destiny as possibly the greatest nation in the world.
Above all else, it is the strategic thinking and planning behind almost everything that is China today that is impressive
A country like China does not rise that high that fast by happenstance but by careful planning, thoughtful implementation and dogged determination
It seems that when China settles upon a strategy, it pursues it with uncommon passion.
It would not be an exaggeration to say that never in the history of human civilisation has any nation been able to make such a technological, economic and social leap forward in such a short span of time as China
That is the China that we must deal with and we better be up to the challenge if we are not to share the fate of lambs headed to the slaughterhouse
It is not to suggest that China is evil or necessarily intent on subjugation; it’s just that the sheer asymmetry of its power and prowess automatically puts other nations at a huge disadvantage
As I walked around Beijing in awe, I couldn’t help reflecting on our own nation’s journey over the last 35 years or so
In many ways, witnessing China’s exponential rise to greatness also forces us to come to terms with our own performance, our own vulnerabilities and shortcomings
It is a depressing exercise to say the least
During then PM Dr Mahathir Mohamad’s visit to China in November 1985, for example, a few Proton Saga were given to a Beijing taxi company as part of the effort to gain publicity for the recently launched Malaysian-made car
Admiring crowds gathered around the Proton wherever it was displayed, astonished that a small developing country like Malaysia could produce its own cars
It was a proud moment for those of us who were there.
Some 37 years later, here we are , desperately looking to China to rescue Proton from total collapse
In 1985, China produced about 6,000 cars annually; by 2008, China’s annual production had surpassed that of the United States and Japan combined
Time and again, we seem to have squandered the lead we had through corruption, mismanagement and misguided policies or wasted resources on hair-brained schemes
Worst of all, we never seem to learn anything from our follies because we keep repeating them
Unproductive, self-defeating exercise
While China was taking giant strides forward with its Four Modernisations programme, we were arguing over language, race and religion. Instead of building a world-class system of education, we were politicising it and pretending that just calling our universities great would make it so
While other countries were going out of their way to attract the best minds in the world, we were driving them away with bigotry and prejudice
While China’s leaders were experimenting with ways to release the creativity, ingenuity and industriousness of all its people, our leaders were stifling it with discriminatory programmes and self-defeating policies
Even now, when countries like China are focused on technological innovation and strategising how to seize global leadership, we are obsessed with religious laws, what people wear or who’s sleeping with whom, never mind that all these things do absolutely nothing to improve our productivity, enhance our competitiveness or prepare us for the challenges ahead
Of course, we have our great plans - Vision 2020 and now TN2050 - but we have neither the patience nor the determination of China to do whatever is necessary to bring it to fruition
In the end, it’s all just hype, a “syiok sendiri” exercise, and we know it
To be sure, Malaysia has made impressive advances as well but surely it is far less than what could have been achieved when measured against our potential
How do we face external challenges and an increasingly competitive global environment with so much internal baggage ?
If we cannot get our act together, if we cannot exorcise the demons within, how can we ever hope to face the dragon without ?

DENNIS IGNATIUS, a former Malaysian ambassador to China , firmly believes that we should put our trust not in the leadership of politicians but in the sanctity of great institutions - our secular and democratic constitution, a democratically elected 
parliament, an independent judiciary, a free press and a government fully accountable to the people.

Tuesday, May 30, 2017

Little hero is 2-year-old now

My preterm baby is 2-year-old now.
Thanks God he is healthy and growing up.

There are still a lot for him to catch up, especially on his weight. However I believe we shall give him more time. As long as he is progressing steadily, he shall be alright.

We had a simple celebration in the evening. 2 pieces of sliced cake and 2 candles. The ceremony was simple but accompanied by his parents, grandmother, and two adorable sisters.

We let him bite and taste the cake twice as we believe the cake is still very challenging for his digestion system.

My late father came to my memory. He is a very accommodating father, especially for his generation. 

He was a intelligent and hardworking man. He sacrificed multiple promotion opportunities to enable him to have the flexibility to take care of us, including my mother like fetching us to and fro from work, school, tuitions, other activities as well as being able to reach home on time to prepare dinner for the family.

During his spare time, he will focus on study like how to improve his day time tasks. I still can remember very clearly that he mastered Lotus 1-2-3, the most popular spreadsheet software at that time from scratch. He was self studied, via reading the software handbooks.

During the 8086, 8088 or XT/ AT era, he was capable of writing simple programming (something like macro for Microsoft Excel in the present) that automating all the variable data calculations based on certain database and parameters. He did show me and it was really amazing!

He passed away last year. I can only miss him and there is no more chance to repay him for all his loves to us.

I hope I will be a good father, to my 3 kids.

Happy Birthday my baby boy!
Dad, I miss you!


Monday, March 13, 2017

Share Rights Issues Application in Malaysia

It has been a while since my last AMFIRST share rights issue application.

I was applying for IOIPG (IOI Properties Group Berhad) right issues few days back. And I learnt that the bank ruling has change and below is the summary for your reference to prevent dissappointment, especially to those who buy bank draft at very last minute.

1. The applicant him or herself must present to bank for bank draft purchase.

2. Mandatory to bring along Right Subscription Form and Identity Card.

The bank need to validate the transactions.

The new requirements has demotivate investors with small portion of share as the trouble against the value of rights issue share may not be worthwhile.

Monday, January 09, 2017

Biggest regret in my life

My dad was diagnosed with end stage cancer while my wife pregnancy become complicated.

During his toughest period, I spare very minimal time with him as I have dedicated my priority to my son. He survived, born as extreme underweight and extreme premature 28 weeker.

A part from that, I also blame myself for over committed on my day time career.

My dad passed away early last year. I did not make it to be with him during his last breath. He passed on when I was on my returning flight from Bangkok. 

I knew he will be leaving us a week before the trip, I had told my colleagues and my family I will not travel after this Bangkok trip. I wanted to stay with him at his very last stage of his life.

I did not make it, but my wife, my 2 daughters and the youngest son were with him during his last moment.

"Dad, I wish you find peace and healthy at the heaven. Mom just told me that you were waiting for me when you knew you were leaving us. She said you left in peace. Dad, pls forgive me. Miss you."


Sunday, January 08, 2017

Ratan Tata's wisdoms

Wisdoms from Ratan Tata's speech in London

Don't educate your children to be rich.
Educate them to be happy.
So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price.

 
"Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food"

 
The one who loves you will never leave you because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he will find one reason to hold on.

 
There is a lot of difference between human being and being human.
A few understand it.


 
You are loved when you are born.
You will be loved when you die.
In between you have to manage.

 
If u want to Walk Fast,  Walk Alone.
But if u want to Walk Far, Walk Together.


Six Best Doctors in the World:
1.Sunlight
2.Rest
3.Exercise
4.Diet
5.Self Confidence
6.Friends
Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy healthy life.


If   you   see   the   moon ..... You   see    the    beauty    of    God .....   If    you   see    the   Sun ..... You   see    the    power   of    God .....   And ....    If   you   see   the   Mirror ..... You   see     the    best    Creation of   GOD .... So    Believe   in     YOURSELF..... :) :) :).

 
Please share this post to your love ones.

Sunday, December 25, 2016

Decluttering my kids belongings

Yesterday and today morning I was spending time in decluttering some of my kids stuff at my cabinet and living hall.

Why I target this area first?
Because their stuffs are not suppose to be cluttered around those areas.

I have thrown out 3 bags of unwanted items and 2 bags of items for donations. However, the clutters remains as they really have many stuffs with them.


Extra pencil cases

Those items no longer in use but is still in good conditions like pencil box will be donated to the charity. Guess what, those pencil boxes are fully contained with pencils and color pencils.

I am going to involve them in this decluttering exercise and I want them to adopt minimalism. 

Over the years, I have been explaining to them like it does not matter how many pencils that you have, to write a good essay, what you need is adequate language proficiency, and with that, you just need 1 pencil to deliver your ideas.

Hopefully this exercise will make them a better person.

Less is more, minimalism

It has been a while since I noticed my mind find peace when I travelled for business trips.

Travelling is tired, and yet I find peace, not only at the hotel room, but also at meetings places. 

Initially I thought it was because of I was away from my home, where my attentions are not needed, so that I can focus on my own stuffs.

It could serve as one of the factor, but definitely not the major one.

I believe it is because of the minimal belongings that I brought along when I was travelling.

Usually I travel with only a cabin size luggage and a laptop. I found out that it is because of I have less belongings that I need to take care when I was travelling, it saved me energy for other matters. And because of that, my mind found peace.

Moving forward, I would like to create more peace at home and at my work place.

They are many ways of becoming minimalist. My ways will be as below.

1. Do not simply buy not essential items.
2. Donate or throw away unecessary and extra items.
3. Unclutter the house and workplace.

Even I am not minimalist before this, but I am definitely against consumerism. 

Consumerism will not only make you financially broke, it will also a waste of natural resources and energy.

Consumerism also create bubble economy and causing unsustainability in various perspectives.

Are you minimalist or someone that against consumerism?


Saturday, December 24, 2016

What goes around comes around

There are many cruel people in our society, making people life difficult for nothing important. What they barely gain is feeling more superior than others, bargaining for a few pennies more, or to show off their status or authority. Not sure if these kind of people realize that they are ruining the victims career, breaking their self confidence and may create permanent damage to one mental and emotions.

Below is a good story to share with everyone to make this a better world. However, let start off with the ambitious that all mankind do no harm to others before we even talk about being kind and helpful to others. 

What goes around comes around, these bully will ended up with the consequences they deserved.

Let's start with "do not make others life difficult." 


One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her. 

Even with the smile on his face, she looked worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry. 

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill which only fear can put in you. 

He said, 'I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.' 

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt. 

As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid. 

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way. 

He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, 'And think of me.'

He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight. 

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan .. 

After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin. 

There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: 'You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.' 

Under the napkin were four more $100. 

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard.... 

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, 'Everything's going to be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson.'

There is an old saying.. 'What goes around comes around.' Today I send you this story, and I'm asking you to pass it on. Let this light shine. God works in wonderful ways and sometimes puts people in our lives for a reason.

Simply, pass it on to a friend.

The lost 4 years

How long is the life span of man?
I believe the average life span of a male is approximately 70 year-old at this moment.
If we consider 20-60 years old are the prime and productive time of a man, the golden age of a man is 40 years.

What is 4 years means to me?
It is 6% of my entire life.
And it is 10% of my productive life.
Yes, it is indeed very precious years.

My life has gone haywire since 2013 till now (2016). Since the company transferred me to take care of a niche business which did not well manage in the past, and it was left unattended for 3 years.

I overdrive myself as soon as on board with the new department. Giving my very best to run the operations, learning new skills and new businesses.

I have stretched my limit over and over, year on year until I am exhausted. Pushing myself over the limit and getting recover over exhaution has become a norm, and it has become a habit.

The frustrating part is when I see things is getting better, restructure kicked in. All the hardwork gone as certain part of business are being restructure and operate like a fast moving business where it is not suitable for niche business.

The worst scenario is when a growing trends is jeopardize by the new structure and wrong handling, the incumbant team that grow the business with a lot of passions are being questioned and hold accountable. Those people whom do not know the business, who are the one ruins the business are left there to operate the niche business like how they run a FMCG business.

I felt my 4 golden years were wasted, trashed. Yes, I am being paid over these 4 years. However, being a pricipal man and being a leader that walk the talk with burning passions, I do not able to convince myself to accept the fact.

I am at the crossroad now.
Shall i continue to invest my golden years? Or I shall cut lost, join the organization that really have the right policies, and have the right management team that know the business that I have a lot of passions.

No matter what, I shall resume appropriate attention on my personal investment to ensure I will have my absolute freedom to live my life and financially strong to support my kids educations and well being of the family.

2017 shall be the turning point.

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Random thoughts from a picture

It was another work day, around 6:00pm, I was still busy with my office matters as usual, I received a Whatapp message from my wife.

She was driving back from work, it must be traffic jam. "A picture is more than a thousand words", it was beyond words.

It relates me to many thoughs of our life.

It was a sunset, working class including my wife are going home.

It was cloudy sky. The scene is beautiful.

Going to rain.

Traffic jam. Bumper to bumper. Commuters were frustrated. Wasting of precious time.

What a beautiful scenery out there, what am I doing? Where is my balance life? Work life balance please.

Our love ones, my kids, baby and parent are at home, waiting for us.

The picture creates random thoughts from my inner soul.

It is like a message to me.

2016 is ending soon, I shall pray and strive for a better 2017, for my family.

Life is beautiful. Appreciate life.

Yea, many random thoughts oozing to my mind.

Perhaps I am in mid life crisis stage.

A message to my 3 kids, when you read this post, both your mom and dad are going through one of our toughest time in our life.

What come may, let's embrace life.

Monday, December 19, 2016

蜘蛛的启示

     有一天中午,我们一家人都很特空除了我们的妈妈。我们就想打扫我们肮脏的椷,突然,我们看见一只可爱的小蜘蛛在制网。
     
     我们就把网弄破,没想到这么坚持,网破了又制。我们都觉得很谅呀。我们只好又把网弄破,因为我们必须清理干净这么多灰尘的椷。最后蜘蛛还是不放弃的制网。

     最后,我们就拿一张纸让蜘蛛把上来然后放生后才弄破蜘蛛网。我们都觉得这只蜘蛛很勤劳。并向蜘蛛学习不屈不挠的精神。我们都很佩服这只蜘蛛。

朋友之间的感情

     我们应该如何与朋友和谐相处?当你的遇到不会做的功课时,你就去教他帮他。当你的朋友不小心跌倒时,你就去扶他起来,并问他有没有受伤。如果受伤了,你就带他去保健室擦药休息。这样我们的感情就会越来越好。当你的朋友的亲人去世了,你就去安慰他,然后跟他说不要太伤心,每个人都会经历生老而病死,所以你就不要太过伤心💔。就这样你帮我,我帮你,变成好朋友。

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