緣份的故事

你相信緣份嗎 ? 相信緣份是早就註定好的嗎 ?
在釋迦牟尼佛和十大弟子的故事中有提到............
有一天他對著所有弟子在講經說法, 忽然他叫起了" 阿難" 說. .
" 你拿一個桶子, 到前方五里路遠的一個小村莊, 向一個在井邊洗衣服的老婦人 ,
要一桶水回來 . 記得態度要客氣和善一點 ............... "阿難點點頭, 拿著空桶子 , 往世尊指示的方向去要水
他想說, 這麼容易的事,一定輕易就能辦妥世尊所交待的任務
走阿, 走到了那村莊 , 真有位白髮蒼蒼的老婦在井邊洗衣服.
阿難, 很有禮貌的向這位老婦恭敬的作揖 , 說:
" 老人家阿老人家, 可以跟你要一桶水嗎 ? " 那老婦一抬起頭望向這年輕人 ,
不由怒從心生...... 很生氣的說:
" 不行 ! 這口井只能給這村子裡的人使用 , 任何外人 , 是不被允許的 ! "
接著就把阿難給趕走了 ,
任由阿難苦苦哀求也不為所動 !阿難無奈 ! 只有帶著空桶回去. . .. . . . .
他將他所遭遇的種種情形 ,娓娓的向世尊和在場的弟子道來.......世尊點點頭 , 示意阿難坐下, 接著祂叫 " 舍利弗 " 去舍利弗一樣走阿, 走到了那村莊 一樣見到那個白髮蒼蒼的老婦還在井邊洗衣服.
舍利弗一樣很有禮貌的向這位老婦人 , 說: " 老人家阿老人家, 可以跟你要一桶水嗎 ? "
那老婦一抬起頭望向這年輕人 ,
不由得心花怒放...... 彷彿見了一個很投緣的親人 很高興的說:
" 行 ! 行 ! 來來, 我來幫你打水. . .. . . " 打好一桶水給舍利弗後, 又叫他等一下
老婦人匆忙的回家拿一些齋食叫舍利弗帶著路上吃 他帶了整桶水回去 將他所遇到的種種情形 ,
也娓娓的向世尊和在場的弟子道來........世尊點點頭一樣示意 舍利弗坐下..... 阿難和在場弟子就很納悶 ,
疑惑, 問世尊是何種因緣 ?
造成阿難和舍利弗這兩人有這麼大的差別世尊開示說道...... : 在遠劫前的一世 ,
這位老婦淪為畜牲道是隻老鼠, 牠死在路邊被烈日豔陽暴曬著. . ..
阿難那時候是個趕貨經商的賈人 見到這隻死老鼠 , 心中起了嫌惡之心 , 掩鼻而過. .
舍利弗那時是個正要赴京趕考的讀書人 見到這隻死老鼠 ,
心中起了憐憫之心 , 順手捧把泥土將牠掩蓋.經久遠劫以後 ! 現在他們見了面 產生這樣不同的差別待遇 .. 眾人可以想像 . . .. . . .
小小的起心動念 , 就有如此大的善惡果報, 何況是直接加諸痛苦在人身上呢 !!緣份真的很奧妙 ! !有時候走在路上 ,看到一個完全不認識的人 莫名其妙就覺的很討厭,
有時候又跟個完全不認識的人或不是很認識的人產生莫名的好感 ,
就像我對你的感覺一樣 . 不知道你是不是也有同感. . .. . . . . . . .

Ubah gaya hidup! (Change your lifestyle!)

8th of March 2008 will be an election day to Malaysian. The ruling party, namely Barisan Nasional (BN) is flushing the Malaysian from all angle with all the posters, movies, billboards and even advertised online via Yahoo advertisement.

Maybe BN know that the people of Malaysia is very unhappy with the tremendous increase of the living cost. The movie is also an election campaign movie that express the real situation and feelings of Malaysian towards the extra ordinary inflation and criticize the comment made by BN representative against the voice of people.

A lesson from Edison Chen's sex scandal

Edison Chen's sex scandal that involve pornographic of a number of Hong Kong celebrities such as Cecelia Cheung, Candice Chan Si Wai, Bobo Chan, Gillian Chung and etc is the hottest topic in the global Chinese communities.

Besides looking at the sex scandal as breaking news, it would be wise if we could take it as a lesson for all especially to the female teenagers and young adults.

Below are some advise:

1. Do not take drug or get drunk especially you are dating/outing with boys/men. You would not know what will happened. And it would be too late to know it if something bad happened.

2. Do not offer your body when your boyfriend demand for sex especially the relationship has not proven to last.

3. Do not allow any picture or video snapping while you are undressed/naked. You never know where will be the soft copy ended to. Take Edison Chen's incident as reference.

Take Edison Chen's sex scandal as the real example for education. It is sinful if we look at it as purely entertaining topic.