There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to dating. What works for some may backfire for others.
Some expert advise that girls should never make the first move, but in this modern day and age, I feel that girls are allowed to initiate the next date.
Drop your date an SMS on the same day, or the day after to thank him/ her for the great time you had, and maybe suggest a meet up soon.
But if you’re not interested in the person he/ she asks you out again, always be polite. The direct approach would be to tell the person that you’d prefer to stay friends so as not to lead him/ her on.
Or, if you’re for the gentler approach, decline his/her invitation by telling him/ her you are busy or already have other engagements. Most (although sadly not all) will get the message after a few turn downs.
Some expert advise that girls should never make the first move, but in this modern day and age, I feel that girls are allowed to initiate the next date.
Drop your date an SMS on the same day, or the day after to thank him/ her for the great time you had, and maybe suggest a meet up soon.
But if you’re not interested in the person he/ she asks you out again, always be polite. The direct approach would be to tell the person that you’d prefer to stay friends so as not to lead him/ her on.
Or, if you’re for the gentler approach, decline his/her invitation by telling him/ her you are busy or already have other engagements. Most (although sadly not all) will get the message after a few turn downs.
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