Thursday, December 30, 2010

AFF Suzuki Cup Champions - Malaysia, declared 31st December 2010 a public holiday

Bravo to the young Malaysia football team in winning the AFF Suzuki Cup.

Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Razak has declared 31st December 2010 a public holiday to celebrate Malaysia's winning of the AFF Suzuki Cup.
Many workers were delighted with the unexpected public holiday. I see smiley faces at the office on 30th December 2010 morning. Generally, the adhoc public holiday is most welcomed by the working class. They do not realize that such short term gain (no need to work for one day) will eventually creates negative impact to the national economy in long term.

Unfortunately, the decision will actually create massive damage to Malaysia, which is struggling to attract foreign investment as well as uplifting the competitiveness of the nation.

The public holiday is declared with short notice (approximately 24 hours). This has caused many operational plans of the corporates and SMEs gone haywire. For private sectors, the problems could be solved by paying the overtime rate. But, if the assignments or tasks that involved government agencies,  it is just too bad.

Malaysia, also known as 'Bolehland' has yet to change its attitude which is mandatory to be competence in the globalized world nowadays. 

Malaysia will still be a good place to live, but not a good place for career and investment.
The currency exchange rate between Malaysia Ringgit (MYR) and Singapore Dollar (SGD) is as below on 31st December 2010:
1 Singapore Dollar = 2.39047 Malaysian Ringgit 

Let's see what will be the rate in 31st December 2011. Figures (exchange rate) is telling truth.
Happy New Year and Good luck Malaysia!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Shield your love ones with a breath of fresh air

An educational video for anti passive-smoking initiative. Share this video and make the community cigarette smoke free.


video

Smoking in indoor areas kills not only the passive smokers, but the smokers as well.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Taiping Mali Cafe at Bandar Puteri Puchong

Bandar Puteri Puchong is always not my preference spot for meals as the restaurants in that area are not serving good food but the focus is more in renovation or atmosphere.

I was passing by Bandar Puteri Puchong on 12th November 2010 during lunch time. Without much thought, I decided to have a quick lunch at Taiping Mali Cafe, I do not expect very tasty food to be served by any restaurant in Bandar Puteri Puchong, a simple meal will do.

Taiping Mali Cafe shop front

Well, the menu left me with not much choice. It was a good sign as you really cannot expect the cook is good in preparing all kind of dishes. And I can bet that those restaurants that served up to 100 types of meals are just buying all the gravy and processed ingredients, while you order, they will opened up the packet from the fridge, heat it up and then put on the plate.

I ordered a plate of petai prawn rice while my friend ordered a plate of soya sauce pork rice. Well, the foods served in less than 3 minutes time (more efficient than fast food giant Mc Donald). The foods were cook and prepared in bulk prior to any ordering. Besides, the size of serving is merely 1/3 of what you can get from the ordinary mixed rice stalls.

In short, the food served by Taiping Mali Cafe is like you are buying a lunch plate from mixed rice stall, but instead of choosing 3 dishes + 1 soup of any combination (approx. MYR 4.00 at mixed rice stall), you only choose one and no soup (approx MYR 2.50 in mixed rice stall but Taiping Mali Cafe is demanding for MYR 8.90 for petai prawn rice and MYR7.90 for soya sauce pork rice) .

Cash bill issued by Taiping Mali Cafe
How about the quality of food? Does it taste good? The answer is any ordinary mixed rice stall can put Taiping Mali Cafe in their pocket. 

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Achieving work-life balance is easier said than done

What're you working for? Yes, I'm working for a living.

What are you living for? I live for my family.

Thus, work-life balance is important to juggle these 2 main objectives in life.



At mid 30s, I found that my time at this age is most valuable in my life time because I need to spend more valuable time to my golden aged parents, time is scarce to them.

I also need to spend enough time to the growing up children as they are progressing fast everyday and you won't want to miss a single moment of their growing up stages. After they hit 18, they will leave you and treasure their own journey of life.

Hence, since 4 years back, I have persistently improving my work efficiency while appreciate and value family time. But with the working culture and perception of Asian that work long hour is necessary for great accomplishment, and also with the contribution of the lousy traffic of Klang Valley, the work-life balance that I'm striving for is just too far from me.

Even though achieving work-life balance is easier said than done, I will never give up and will continue to make improvement and adjustment. 

Friday, October 29, 2010

Financial Freedom

The phrase 'Financial Freedom' has been popularized by the personal financial guru, Robert Kiyosaki via his best selling book 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad'.

Most of the financial consultants or financial planners would suggest one to reach financial freedom status before hitting the retirement age. In this case, if you are a Malaysian, you shall target yourself to reach financial freedom by 55-year-old.

Imagine if you are able to achieve the status of financial freedom only at the age of 55-year-old, a part from maintaining your lifestyle as a employee after the retirement, you will be financially fit to do what you want to do but do not have the luxury of time during employment. One who reach financial freedom will also live with pride as he or she will not become burden to family (But taking care of the parents including financial support is the responsibility of the son or daughter.)


From my point of view, if you have already plan or half way through the journey of financial freedom, let set a more aggressive time line for achieving the status of financial freedom at the age of 40 to 45-year-old. Getting financial freedom at 55-year-old could be considered as remarkable achievement, squeezing the time line to achieve it 10 to 15 years earlier would be very challenging, but it is worth the effort as such:

1. You are more energetic and bodily fit at 40-year-old as compared to 55-year-old. Freedom and money is more meaningful at middle age than golden age.
2. An option for early retirement.
3. An option to venturing own business.
4. Less pull back for career change which could be challenging and risky as hire and fire is common at the top level position.
5. Spend more time with the aged parents and your spouse by accompany them on what they dream to do like traveling to certain places or visiting to some relatives whom are staying far apart.
6. Educate and grow with your kids before they move on to college.
7. Etc. (Please comment)

What would you like to do upon reaching the status of financial freedom? Are you planning for it?

Thursday, October 21, 2010

感恩的故事

他通過了第一級的面試,董事長做最後的面試,做最後的決定。

董事長從該青年的履歷上發現,該青年成績一貫優秀,從中學到研究生從來沒有間斷過。

董事長問,你在學校裏拿到獎學金嗎?該青年回答,沒有。

董事長問,是你的父親 為您付學費嗎?該青年回答,我父親在我一歲時就去世了,是我的母親給我付的學費。

董事長問,那你的母親是在那家公司高就?該青年回答,我的母親是給人洗衣服的。

董事長要求該青年把手伸給他,該青年把一雙潔白的手伸給董事長。

董事長問,你幫你母 親洗過衣服嗎?該青年回答,從來沒有,我媽總是要我多讀書,再說,母親洗衣服比我快得多。
董事長說,我有個要求,你今天回家,給你母親洗一次雙手,明天上午你再來見我。

該青年覺得自己成功的可能很大,回到家後,高高興興地要給母親洗手,母親受寵若驚地把手伸給孩子。

該青年給母親洗著手,漸漸地,眼淚掉下來了,因為他第一次發現,他母親的雙手都是老繭,有個傷口在碰到水時還疼得發抖。

青年第一次體會到,母親就是 每天用這雙有傷口的手洗衣服為他付學費,母親的這雙手就是他今天畢業的代價。
該青年給母親洗完手後,一聲不響地把母親剩下要洗的衣服都洗了。

當天晚上,母親和孩子聊了很久很久。

第二天早上,該青年去見董事長。

董事長望著該青年紅腫的眼睛,問到,可以告訴我你昨天回家做了些什麼嗎?

該青年回答說,我給母親洗完手之後, 我幫母親把剩下的衣服都洗了。

董事長說,請你告訴我你的感受。

該青年說,第一,我懂得了感恩,沒有我母親,我不可能有今天。第二,我懂得了要去和母親一起勞動,才會知道母親的辛苦。第三,我懂得了家庭親情的可貴。

董事長說,我就是要錄取一個會感恩,會體會別人辛苦,不是把金錢當作人生第一目標的人來當經理。你被錄取了。


這位青年後來果真工作努力,深得職工擁護,員工也都努力工作,整個公司業績大幅成長。


假如一位孩子從小嬌生慣養,習慣了被人圍著寵著,什麼都是“我”第一,父母的辛苦都不知道,上班後,以為同事都應該聽他的,當了經理後,不知道員工的辛苦,還要怨天尤人。這樣的人,會有好的學校成績,會有得意風光的一時,但社會上的這類人,都不能成大事,都不會感覺到幸福,都要跌跟鬥,那父母是愛孩子呢還是害孩子呢?

你可以讓你的孩子住大房子,吃大餐,學鋼琴,看大屏電視,但你在割草時,也要讓你的孩子在大太陽下拔拔野草,你在吃飯後,也要讓你的孩子洗洗碗,不是你沒有錢雇人,而是你真心愛孩子。你要讓孩子知道,即使父母掙不少錢,但早早的白髮,和那位洗衣服的母親沒有本質的差別。但更重要的是,要讓你的孩子學會感恩。

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

一度C的溫度

有一對夫妻面對突如其來的經濟變化,那一年的冬天,他的事業幾乎一敗塗地。
他們不得不搬出豪華溫暖的公寓,在市郊另租了一間簡陋的房子.房內陰冷潮濕,一如他們當時的心情。
他對她說〞相信我,會好起來的﹗〞< 她信 >。
 
白天,他在外面疲於奔命,有時一整天也不打一個電話回來.她理解他,知道他在外面所做的一切都是為了他們的將來。
晚上回到家大部分時間裡,他總是一個人坐在電腦前查資料、整理訊息、打客戶電話,然後昏昏地睡去,他很少和她閒聊。 她理解他,知道他很累,需要休息。
但不管怎麼累,他都要天天洗澡,那是他多年養成的習慣。浴室裡只有簡陋的沐浴,這讓她很懷念那套曾經溫馨的豪宅。

想起以前的日子,她有些傷心,因為她突然發現他不在乎她了。 不再對她噓寒問暖,這從洗澡這件事上就能看出來。
在以前,他總是讓她先洗,他自己卻留著一身臭汗在客廳或者書房裡,直到她洗完。這樣的體貼曾令她自豪和感動。

然後她便聽見浴室裡嘩嘩的水聲,生活的艱難磨去了他的紳士風度,改變了他們的相敬如賓, 更削減了他對她的愛戀,她想他為什麼不能繼續讓著她呢?
可是現下,他總是要先洗。每當她要走進浴室的時候,他就會突然說,我先來吧!
這是不是說明了,他已經不<愛>她了?
後來有一天,她終於忍不住了,問他為什麼。他楞了半天說,在外面跑了一天,一身的臭汗不舒服,所以急著沖一下。
她幾乎絕望了.他終於不再疼她了﹗她不僅僅失去了以前那棟豪宅,並且正在失去丈夫的愛情。
那一天,照例他出去了。她百無聊賴,打開了他的電腦。她驚奇的發現他竟然天天在電腦上寫日記﹗

她慢慢地、讀著~讀著……
然後眼淚一滴滴的流了下來。

她看到這樣一段文字︰
今天她問我為什麼總是要搶在她前面洗澡? 我沒有說實話,我怕她為我難過,但浴室很冷。
但我知道,在沐浴完以後,那裡面的溫度會升高一點點,3度、2度~或者1度!
我想,那樣的話,她在洗澡的時候該會暖和一些吧?在這段艱苦和寒冷的日子裡,我想,我至少還能送給她這1度C的溫暖吧﹗

文章提供~"艾莉"

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Say NO to Passive Smoking 4

I hate to be a passive smoker. I believe most of the the non-smokers are like me, we hate passive smoking.

I have visited to Mutiara Complex at Jalan Ipoh, Kuala Lumpur on 20th August 2010, it is a run down shopping complex. One of the very obvious scenario that tells if the shoppin mall is well doing or the reverse is the quality of crowds.

All of us know that air-conditioned or covered public area like Mutiara Complex is prohibited from smoking, but you will find many of the crowds just playing ignorance and the toxic smoke were all around the mall.



The picture above showed a very sad scenario. The father was shopping with his wife and son with the cigarette on hand. This guy is poisoning his own son and wife by supplying them the toxic passive smoke. Everywhere they go, the hazardous gas will be puffing around by the their lovely daddy or husband.

Read more:

Thursday, September 02, 2010

Blooody Hands

A forwarded email from Dr Jeyashree Srinivasan (Island Hospital)

If you see a guy (especially Indian) who rides a motorbike with a bloody hand knocking on your window demanding you to stop and asking for tissue paper to clean the blood when you are driving a car, remember DO NOT stop the car at all. Even if he damages your car or holds the side mirrors tightly, DO NOT stop the car but drive directly to the nearest police station. This kind of criminal tactics have been reported in about 40 cases in Seremban, Kuala Lumpur, Shah Alam, Petaling Jaya and Klang Town police stations (actually around the whole country).


These guys are mainly Indian gangsters, They work in a group and dare to commit this crime even in crowded areas where nobody will dare to stop the car to help you. The main purpose of this dirty tactic is to rob you and/ or even commit rape if you are female driver driving alone.

Tuesday, July 06, 2010

Malaysia vs. Singapore

Malaysia and Singapore are so close to each other, and yet so far if comparisons being made.

Before I depart to Singapore, I went to a money changer to prepare myself some Singapore Dollar. I knew the exchange rate is going to be at around 2.2-2.3,  but I still caught by surprise when the money changer handover me S$86 in the exchange of MYR200.

Compared to Singapore Dollar, the Malaysia Ringgit is just too weak. In short, to be a millionaire in Singapore, one need to be a multi millionaire in Malaysia.


The public transport systems of Singapore is known to be one of the best among the world. Malaysia government can give a lame excuse that Singapore territory is so small and bla bla bla. Let's not compare the routes and coverage, just zoom in to compare the terminals of MRT of Singapore and LRT of Malaysia, you will find that the terminal of MRT is so clean and comfortable, even non MRT passengers are hanging around to do shopping or enjoy the air condition. What is the scenario in Malaysia? It is not a place that you would consider to stay for an extra second. The exhaust gases, cigarettes and dirty surroundings  are the only impressions I have.

The quality and conveniences offers at the Budget Terminal of Singapore is not far away as compared to the Kuala Lumpur International Airport (KLIA). If is just too ugly to Malaysia if we were to compare our LCCT and Subang Airport with the Singapore Budget Terminal.

As per my counterparts in Singapore, most of them left the office on time. The scenario is totally different in Malaysia. More than 50% of the staffs are still working at their cubicles at 7pm. But in term of national progress and development, Singapore is far ahead of Malaysia while the gap is getting wider over period. Malaysia is still not able to catch-up with Singapore even though  Malaysians putting 1-2 hours extra per day in their daily works.

Something should have gone very wrong. In my view, this reason could be Malaysian is not giving high priority on efficiency and time management. Malaysian is still weighing success with hard work and time effort instead of work smart and human asset management (talent retention).

What do you think?

(Marco is writing this post at Singapore Budget Terminal.)


Related Posts:
1. Singapore Dollar (SGD) vs. Malaysia Dollar (MYR)
2. Singapore vs. Malaysia 2

Monday, June 21, 2010

Gifts for the wife

Three guys are bragging about what they bought their wives:

The first says:
I bought her something which goes from 0 to 100 in 6 seconds"
The other two guys don't know what he's talking about so he reveals,

"I bought her a nice Porsche"

The second guy says:
"I bought something which goes from 0 to 100 in 4 seconds."
"That HAS to be a Ferrari - right?"
"Yeah that's right!  I bought my wife a nice red Ferrari"

The third one says:
"I bought my wife something which goes from 0 to 200 in just 2 seconds."
"THAT CAN'T BE - The Ferrari is the fastest car in the world?!"
"Well - it's not a car, but ........."



Tuesday, May 18, 2010

如何正確暫時停車和節省燃料

如何正確暫時停車節省燃料

動態溫車效果佳  
相信很多愛車的朋友,在開車前都有溫車的好習慣,這對延長愛車的壽命有很大的幫助,但如果能採用正確的溫車方式,則能獲得更佳的保養效果。

靜態溫車缺失多  
許多人在開車前習慣先發動引擎、再擦擦車窗、檢查胎壓,或在車內聽聽音樂,約3-5分鐘後才上路,其實這種靜態的溫車方式因為引 擎空轉,實際上車子並沒有前進,造成汽油的浪費,而且引擎空轉時 ,其它傳動的齒輪及其潤滑油根本沒有機會做暖身運動,也無法發揮溫車的預期效果。

動態溫車效果佳  在這裡跟您建議一種正確的溫車方法,就是在引擎啟動後立即排檔 前進,慢速行進約3-5分鐘後再全速行駛,這種動態暖車的方式完全 彌補了靜態暖車的缺失,而且對車子亦不會造成不良的影響。


如何正確暫時停車                                 

開自排車的朋友經常會在等紅綠燈時將排檔從D檔切換到N檔,或是習慣利用OD/OFF來超車。其實這種方法是不正確的,在此向大家做比較深入的探討。

汽車暫停時正確的停車方法               
很多朋有在等紅綠燈時會將排檔從D檔切換到N檔,理由是減少自排 裝置的負荷或減低耗油量;事實上完全相反,為什麼?

如果每遇紅綠燈就將排檔從D檔切換到N檔,起動時又再推回D檔, 反覆動作頻繁,反而會使排檔連動機構增加耗損、減短壽命。放入空檔使引擎無負荷而怠速空轉,並不會省油,因為在無D檔負荷下,正確的操作方法應該是: 引擎 怠速會增加其轉速,耗油也會增加。

 a.遇紅綠燈或短時間停車時應將排檔放在D檔,用腳煞車暫停。

 b.稍長時間的暫停再將排檔推回N或P檔位置;一方面減少踩煞車的勞累,另一方面可避免因長時間的負荷使自排裝置的轉換器溫度上升

 c.較長時間的暫停除了上述方法外,還要偶爾稍加油門,使引擎轉

速稍高,防止發電機在怠速下發電量減少、不足的問題發生。在大耗電負荷狀況下如同時開大燈、冷氣、除霧及雨刷時,此法特別重要。

降檔加速與OD/OFF

大部份的人超車都愛用OD/OFF,其實是不正確的(載重爬坡的超車除外)。不必用OD/OFF,在正常行駛狀況下,完全放開油門再猛踩到底,自排車的「降檔加速」(KICK-DOWN)就可提供駕駛人瞬間加速或超車的性能。在猛踩油門後,別馬上放掉油門,以利進行加速,再依車況放開油門減速。千萬注意,超車時要保持安全距離,確定路況良好並無來車,轉彎處嚴禁超車,一切以安全為主。

 OD/OFF的主要功能是使變速箱高速檔OD(OVER-DRIVE)呈OFF狀態,不會跳升至四檔,提高加速性能或使引擎煞車時發揮效果。

一般常用 於下列兩種時機:

 1.行駛漫長的下坡灣道路況,可發揮引擎煞車效果。

 2.行駛其崎嶇上彎道路時,可避免自排變速箱頻頻在三、四檔間跳換,不但行駛不穩且耗油。


節省燃料有絕招 

最省油的車型  
影響車輛整體耗油量的因素很多,除了排氣量外,還有變速箱的型式等。一般的電子智慧型四速變速箱要比傳統機械式及三速變速箱來得省油;此外,車體重量也是影響因素之一,以同級車來說,重量輕者「理論上」應該比較省油;再以行駛市區而言,扭力值較大而且輸出轉速越低者通常比較省油;輪胎愈寬則愈省油。在買新車的同時,不妨可以參考經濟部能委會編印的「耗油率指南」手冊來比較看看。

良好的加油習慣
平時在市區開短程時,沒有必要將油箱加滿,以免增加車輛的負荷,造成耗油;但是在油箱快見底時才加油,則會造成油箱底部所累積的雜質,容易被抽入燃油系統,造成供油不順暢的現象;而且油箱太空時,容易存有空氣,在日夜溫差大時會形成水氣,混雜在油中,所以建議您在油箱剩下1/4時,就應該加油,並加油約7或8分滿就成了。

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Making a change

Her name was Mrs. Thompson.

As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie.

Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same.  But that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.  Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath and Teddy could be unpleasant.

It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh.  He does his work neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to be around."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well-liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school.  He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's.

His was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from the grocery bag.  Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents.  Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing and a bottle that was one quarter full of perfume.

But she stifled the children laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.

Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to."

After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.  On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children.  Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy.  As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive.  The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded.  

By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and despite the lie, that she loved all children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time, he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further.  The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had.  But now his name was a little longer...the letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.

The story doesn't end there.  You see, there was yet another letter that spring.  Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married.  He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom.

Of course, Mrs. Thompson did.  And guess what?  She wore that bracelet, the one with the several rhinestones missing.  And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.

They hugged each other and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you, Mrs. Thompson for believing in me.  Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it wrong.  You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference.  I didn't know how to teach until I met you."

Warm someone's heart today....pass this along!
 
Please remember that wherever you go and whatever you do, you will have the opportunity to touch and /or change a person's outlook on life.

"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."

Marco's comment:
If you are a teacher, I hope this story has inspired you and able to motivate you on your day time career as human engineering.

If you are a parents, I hope that you will able to play your role better as the impact of you on your kids could only be greater than the teachers do.

If you are a boss, managers or supervisors, I hope you are inspired by the story and be a better coach and mentor to your sub-ordinates. Remember, do not make others life difficult for the sake of your own interest or favoratism. 

Friday, April 09, 2010

我们将往哪里去?

近三次大地震竟然出现惊人巧合。

5月12日 8.0 汶川
1月12日 7.3 海地
2月27日 8.8.智利

横看为512 112 227
竖看为512 112 227

传说中的,横竖都是死?

汶川、海地、智利3次大地震时间上的巧合(512、112、227,后两位分别为12、 12、27),使越来越多的人相信玛雅预言的世界末日(2012, 12月27日)真的就要到来的思想进一步激化。

这是刚才朋友转来的,

看来地球大灾难真的在进程中。

如果2012 世界末日真的发生,请不要惊讶。
不只是因为玛雅传说,而是科学证明。
升2度C的温度将让地球被毁灭。

從1度C到6度C
英國作家萊納斯(Mark Lynas)閱讀了上千篇科學論文,走訪多位氣候 和環境專家,以兩年時間,寫出《六度的變化》(Six Degrees)一書。
書中預測地球每升溫1度C,會帶來的後果;當升溫6度C,就是人類滅亡的臨界點。

升高1度C:
農業地帶會沙漠化,沙塵暴覆蓋城市;三分之一地表的淡水(河流和湖泊)會干涸;低窪的海岸地區將被淹沒;北極熊、海象和海豹絕跡。

升高2度C:
歐洲的夏天,像撒哈拉沙漠般火熱,人們死於熱浪;大火燒毀大量森林;格陵蘭冰原徹底消融,全球海平面升高7米;地球上有三分之一的物種面臨死亡威脅。

升高3度C:

亞馬遜森林死亡;超級颱風將肆虐沿海的城市;紐約市已經泡在水裡;印度次大陸和非洲發生大饑荒。

升高4度C:
永凍土解凍,雪水讓全球暖化加速;英國的大部份地區因為嚴重淹水無法住人;人類被迫遷出地中海區;全球爆發糧食危機。

升高5度C:
海底下的海床釋出的甲烷加速暖化;南北極的冰層融化;雨林已經燒光、變成沙漠;人類為了尋找食物開始大遷徙,過著動物一樣的生活。

升高6度C:
連北極也沒有冰了;歐洲是一片沙漠;地球大部份地區已經不適合人類居住;沿海城市成為廢墟。

超過6度C:
暖化完全失控,任何努力都是徒勞了;超級暴風雨、洪水、硫化氫氣體、以及甲烷火球摧毀地球;人類滅亡,地球只有黴菌能夠存活;地球回到1億5000萬年前恐龍滅絕的年代。


聯合國的跨政府氣候變遷專家小組(IPCC)報告指出,人類的活動,包括土地利用、工業生產、城市化和生活型態,都排放大量溫室氣體(Greenhouse Gas),從而造成地球升溫。
地球升溫人類造成地球升溫的種種因素,超過90%是人類自己造成。
人類知道溫度上升會毀滅世界,但是,卻依照熱衷追求高排放的經濟成長模式,也習慣於高消耗的生活方式,樂此不疲,不會輕易放棄。
就好像一缸水裡的青蛙,水的溫度逐漸的升高,青蛙始終無動於衷,甚至愜意無比;直到溫度過了臨界點,它已經跳不出水缸,活活被煮死。青蛙沒有意識到水溫上升,所以不會跳出水缸。人類呢?

美國和中國是世界兩大二氧化碳排放量最高的國家,在哥本哈根峰會上,不但無法攜手合作,反倒是針鋒相對,歸咎對方;在堅持本身利益的同時,要對方作出更大讓步。哥本哈根大會沒有讓人類跳出水缸,大國之間相互扯後腿,逼使大家都留在水缸。一紙“記錄在案”的氣候協議,只是同意減少排放溫室氣體,卻沒有制訂目標,也沒有執行方案。

窮國與島國皆大失所望。面對淹沒威脅的太平洋小島圖瓦盧代表說,這是對未來的背叛;非洲蘇丹的代表說,協議是判處非洲死刑,形同大屠殺。

救救我们的地球!

Monday, March 29, 2010

十年前......十年後......


I have been working for more than 10 years since I graduated from my home town college in year 2000.

A lot of things have changed over these ten years. What I learned over these ten years are as below:

1. Value your family especially your parents, your spouse and your children.
2. Set your goals based on the lifestyle you desired, this is very much depending on your character and hobbies.
3. Money is the infinity object. Limited resources like time, energy and health are more important than money.


父母

十年前我們是父母的孩子;十年後我們是孩子的父母

十年前我不知道家的溫馨;十年後我才體會家的溫暖

十年前我渴望離家去遠方;十年後我渴望從遠方回家

十年前我對父母大吵大嚷;十年後我希望父母再罵我



生活

十年前我騎著自行車,吹著歡快的口哨,走在回家的路上
十年後我開著私家車,接著不斷的電話,走在應酬的路上

十年前我渴望坐一次飛機,十年後我最害怕的就是坐飛機

十年前我踢完球,走過咖啡屋窗前,希望女生對面的男生是我
十年後我望見咖啡屋外走過那剛踢過球的孩子,希望我是其中一個


渴望

十年前我渴望住進五星飯店,十年後我住進五星飯店,卻想回家

十年前我們被父母和老師逼到課桌前,認真聽講;十年後我想再次聽講,卻已找不到課桌

十年前我鄙視飯店門前的酒鬼,發誓一輩子也不喝酒;十年後我就是飯店門前的那個酒鬼

十年前我渴望有朝一日坐上自己的私家車,不再走路;十年後我渴望走路,不再開私家車

十年前我希望顯露出的是成熟;十年後我去美容,希望青春永駐

十年前我頓頓想著大魚大肉;十年後我餐餐只想著吃青菜



工作

十年前我們四處尋找公用電話;十年後我們有了手機,依然四處奔波

十年前我月薪的目標是10,000;十年後我月薪50,000元,依然無法快樂

十年前200元我可以花用一個月;十年後200元我只能吃一頓飯

十年前我們穿著統一的校服,樸素中透出的是陽光般的燦爛
十年後我們穿著名牌的服裝,華貴中流露出的是淡淡的憂鬱

十年前我最怕的就是批評;十年後我最難得的卻是批評

十年前我們可以蓬頭垢面,滿臉汗漬的去上課
十年後我們必須衣冠楚楚,面帶微笑的去上班

十年前我痛恨腐敗;十年後我腐敗了



感念


十年前我以為自己是一棵大樹;十年後才明白自己不過是一棵小草

十年前我唯一可以浪費的就是時間;十年後除了時間什麼我都可以浪費

十年前我們可以說青春無悔;十年後我們只能說青春不在 !

十年前我們可以遊戲人生;十年後我們卻處在人生的遊戲中

Friday, March 19, 2010

Mind opener pictures

Let the pictures below open your mind.


Human beings are such small creatures, aren’t we?
Treasure every moment, do what you wish to do…..
Broaden your view, broaden your mind.
Do treasure your loved ones, live safely and peacefully,
Always look at the brighter side of things.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

The LDP Highway (Lebuhraya Damansara-Puchong)

If you are a wage earner, and the company that you work for does not practice flexible working hour, and LDP highway is a must passing by route to reach your office... It would be a daily nightmare to you for driving to and fro from work.


The Sunway Toll of LDP is one of the most congested traffic spot in Klang Valley. The jam has worsen since January 2010, it took more than 30 minute from IOI Mall  passing the Sunway Toll till Motorola. The Toll Plaza is looks like a mega parking bay during the peak hour.

It is really a joke while all the drivers are jammed up before and after paying the toll. Seems like we are paying for the traffic jam.

I have 2 request to the related parties which definately can help to ease the LDP congestion:
  1. The Litrak (LDP operator) to get the qualified engineers in assessing the road design. There are several bottlenecks along the LDP that are causing the massive jam especially at ultra ugly intersection between Jalan Puchong, LDP and Sg Besi-TPM road.
  2. The Malaysia transport minister, Datuk Seri Ong Tee Keat to walk the talk instead of talk and talk.

Read also:
RE: Do you know you pay a lot to and fro from work?

Monday, February 08, 2010

Divorce Conditions

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat Down And Ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, Instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the spoon and Shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; She had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing... I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions:

She didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.

She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce.

I nodded, feeling somewhat upset... I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.  On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. 

Suddenly it hit me... She had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life.

My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day...

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... Jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind.... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.  At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I ran up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.......I cried and cried uncontrollably and carried her for the last time from the room to the hall with tears streaming down my face and gazing at my only son, his tears rolling from his eyes, they made me cry even more. I had lost my love, my wife and a loving and caring mother and nothing I could do now to put the clock backward. I had all the time now to look at her motionless body in detail but I knew it was going to be only for a short while until she made her last journey to the Lord......I held my son and wept again and again thinking of all the things I did not do for her when she was still alive and placed gently the flowers in her hands with my tears trickling on them.......she was gone forever, all my tears would not bring her back.

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, etc. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you...
If you do, you might just save a marriage...

Friday, January 22, 2010

美好人生


人之所以痛苦,在于追求错误的东西
 
如果你不给自己烦恼,别人也
永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心,你放不下。
 
好好的管教你自己
,不要管别人。
 
你随时要认命,
因为你是人
 
这个世界
本来就是痛苦的,没有例外的。
 
你什么时候
放下,什么时候就没有烦恼。
 
每一种创伤,
都是一种成熟
 
当你烦恼的时候,你就要告诉你自己,这一切都是假的,
你烦恼什么
 
根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁,如果有一条疯狗咬你一口,
难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗
 
忌妒别人
,不会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人,也不可能减少别人的成就。
 
永远不要浪费你的一分一秒
,去想任何你不喜欢的人。
 
得不到的东西,我们会一直以为他是美好的,那是因为你对他了解太少,没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天,你深入了解后,你会发现原
不是你想像中的那么美好
 
这个世间
只有圆滑,没有圆满的
 
不要刻意去猜测他人的想法
,如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断,通常都会有错误的。
 
你要
感谢告诉你缺点的人
 
时间总会过去的,
让时间流走你的烦恼吧
 
不要因为小小的争执
,远离了你至亲的好友,也不要因为小小的怨恨,忘记了别人的大恩。
 
感谢上苍
我所拥有的,感谢上苍我所没有的。
 
当你手中抓住一件东西不放时,你只能拥有这件东西,如果
你肯放手,你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念,不肯放下,那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。
 
如果
你能够平平安安的渡过一天,那就是一种福气了。多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳,多少人在今天已经成了残废,多少人在今天已经失去了自由,多少人在今天已经家破人亡。
 
恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中
,不管他有多坏,有多恶。你愈骂他,你的心就被污染了,你要想,他就是你的善知识。
 
不要常常觉得自己很委曲,你应该要想,他对我这样已经很好了,这就是修行的功夫。
 
世界原本就不是属于你,因此你用不着抛弃,
要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用,但非我所属。
 
学会用理解
的,欣赏的眼光去看对方,而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
 
成熟的人
不问过去;聪明的人不问现在;豁达的人不问未来。
 
发光并非太阳的专利,
你也可以发光
 
你可以用爱
得到全世界,你也可以用恨失去全世界
 
爱的力量
大到可以使人忘记一切,却又小到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容纳。
 
人总是
珍惜未得到的,而遗忘了所拥有的
 
如你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊,可能
一辈子找不到朋友

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

The Danger of Myspace and Facebook to Your Children


After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line.. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

ByAngel213:
Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?

ByAngel213:
Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?

ByAngel213:
Yes, and we won!!

GoTo123:
That's great! Who did you play?

ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

GoTo123:
What is your team called?

ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

GoTo1 23:
Did you pitch?

ByAngel213:
No, I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

GoTo123:
Catch you later. Bye

Meanwhile, GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.

By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

"Shannon, come here," her father called.. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

"Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."

Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

"Do you know who I am, Shannon ?" the man asked..

"No," Shannon answered.

"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."

Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"

The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."

Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"

He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"

She nodded.

"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"

"It's a promise!"

That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

媽咪終於抱到妳了 (高子媃的真實故事)

健康真的很重要,回家抱抱家人吧!


滿月的大禮物, 抽骨髓+化療
 

做完輸血治療的媃媃,是否有得到醫生叔叔說的得到很大的改善呢?
結果是令人失望的,看著得到充分營養的腫瘤,不止沒有消退,
反而變得又紅又大,吹彈可破,看到這樣的結果,


媽咪深深的體會到罕見疾病家庭的痛苦與無奈,
包含罕見疾病基金會及任何可以查詢的單位,我們都試了,
得到的是更多的無奈跟失望,


媽咪看到小兒科醫師有點緊張的神情,
告訴媽咪要幫媃媃請小兒血液腫科醫師來看媃媃,


一直到後來很久以後...媽咪才知道...
原來會看這一科的孩子都很可憐.....



腫瘤科醫師看完,馬上就覺得很不對勁,
在這麼短的時間內長這麼快,“很惡性”
希望幫妳抽骨髓,又是一個痛心的決擇,

與其說選擇,不如說我們一點選擇的權利也沒有,
就這樣...妳又被壓著做了抽骨髓的檢查,
媽咪永遠也忘不了妳抽完骨髓後的樣子,
像受盡了委屈及極度的驚嚇,


妳發出了比小貓叫聲還要小聲的哭聲,
看到這樣的妳,媽咪的心真的很痛,
期待這一切的痛苦及心痛,可以在這一次的檢查結果,
得到一個美好的結局,還給媃媃單純的“嬰兒生活”,
難到簡單的幸福對媃媃來說,是這麼的不容易?

原本星期五早上抽骨髓,星期一才可以看報告,
可是星期五的下午我們就得到了很慎重的會談,
醫生告訴我們,從顯微鏡下看出來,應該是“神經母細胞瘤”,
不過還好是媃媃的發病年齡,還有發病位置,是最好醫治的第4s期,

有90%的治癒率,一般來說,大部分這一期的小朋友很多不用治療,
都會自動痊癒,但是媃媃長得比較多,所以希望可以打一點微量的化療,
效果較快,所以她是屬於較良性的,
媽咪回家再上網查了一下,真的是哭到不行,明明上面就是寫著“癌症”,
還有所謂的“較良性”嗎?


媽咪再跑去問醫生叔叔,當初不是有一顆被切下來嗎,可是報告不是良性的嗎?
醫生叔叔的回答是.....我們有回去請他們再重新看當初的那顆切片(是同一顆),
當初....確定是“看錯了”,細胞都長得很像,所以可能看的時候有點看錯!!
拿著“看錯”的良性病歷報告,媽咪真的是無言,難怪看了這麼多醫生也無解,


但是從切片到後來抽骨髓,我們的腫瘤已經多了不只一百顆了,癌症是跟時間賽跑,
三顆跟一百顆,難到治療的結果不會受影響嗎?


我們連喘息及選擇的時間也沒有,就這樣,隔天....
我們帶著媃媃坐上了轉院的救護車,住進了兒童癌症病房,成為了當時,
年紀最小的化療病患....




寶貝...媽咪終於抱到妳了...


媃媃走了....當心跳偵測器的數字掉到0時....我以為我的心跳也會停止....



我親愛的媃媃

媽咪的心好痛...妳終於還是敵不過癌細胞的摧殘...而離開了媽咪...
妳要媽咪該如何是好....妳來當媽咪女兒這七個月...一直都承受著病痛及痛苦的治療至死...
這種痛怎麼可能平復得了...
媽咪一直以為這些痛苦只是一個過程....萬萬沒想到會是妳的結局...
這麼痛苦的人生....妳何苦來走這一遭....媽咪真的覺得妳好可憐...好辛苦....


妳一定不明白...為何從離開媽咪的肚子以後,就一直痛痛...
不是全身都痛到不行,就是一直被很多叔叔阿姨壓著打針,要不然就是承受化療的痛苦 ...

因為這樣的妳,只要一點音樂、一點聲音、一個微笑總能讓妳開心的笑,


即使那些日子少得可憐...但那麼一點點喘息的時間,對妳來說就是最大的恩典,


我可憐的孩子...爸比、媽咪竟然給妳這樣的人生...
媽咪真的不覺得妳想走....
連醫生叔叔都說妳很厲害...可以撐這麼久....
凌晨...妳的強心針早已打到20了...可是妳竟然可以多撐了八小時才離開...
連媽咪都不忍心了...妳還是不肯走...


媽咪請護士阿姨幫幫忙...讓媽咪再抱抱妳....

或許....這就是妳未了的心願吧!

媽咪全身發抖的抱著妳....妳終於肯走了...

在媽咪的懷裏...一直撐住的心跳....終於慢了下來....


我親愛的孩子....媽咪的心真的好痛好痛...

為什麼是這樣的結局....
為什麼一定要讓妳離開....


媽咪什麼都還沒教會妳...什麼都還沒給妳...
只給了妳滿滿痛苦的回憶...而妳就要走了....
不要氣媽咪....


媽咪終於抱到妳了....可是這竟然是最後的擁抱...

媽咪可以留住妳的照片...可是再也留不住妳的味道...


再也摸不到妳...再也感受不到妳的溫度....

對不起...寶貝...媽咪再也不能夠照顧妳了....
媽咪好愛好愛妳 ...媽咪永遠愛妳...


謝謝妳來當媽咪的寶貝...


請妳一定要回來看媽咪....


請妳再回來當媽咪的寶貝...                                                                                                        
深愛妳的媽咪        


高子媃~媃媃...
已於民國98年1月18日,早上8點26分
於台南奇美柳營分院
走完了她短短的7個月又3天的生命
很感謝有這麼多人關心跟疼愛媃媃...
更感謝有這麼多人認識這個孩子...
記得曾經有一個這麼努力想活下來的孩子...

寶貝...是妳嗎...

親愛的媃媃....是妳嗎....

雖然知道妳已經回去耶穌爸爸的身邊了...

但常常跟祂商量....請求祂讓妳再回來一次....

請求祂讓媽咪有機會親自帶妳去認識祂....

請求祂讓媽咪有機會再牽到妳的手....

請求祂讓媽咪有機會再一次抱到妳....

沒有妳...媽咪有好多好多 的遺憾...

有好多好多的事想和妳一起完成....



妳離開後...媽咪一直好希望妳可以來夢中找媽咪....

一直到最近...媽咪終於夢到妳了...是妳嗎....


妳來告訴媽咪...妳又要來當媽咪的女兒了嗎....

妳是來告訴媽咪...這次妳真的準備好了....

其實媽咪有點傷心...因為堅信生命是獨立的個體....

所以媽咪一直很難相信媽咪會這麼幸運...

能夠再生到一次媃媃...



一直到那天....6月10號....
醫生叔叔告訴媽咪“ 應該是女生哦!” ...媽咪又再夢到妳...
也許是體心的媃媃要告訴媽咪...“媽咪...真的是我啦!”
媽咪真的相信了...


我感覺到...我真的快牽到媃媃的手了...
謝謝妳寶貝...謝謝妳還願意再當媽咪的寶貝...
愛妳的媽咪

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